Taylor J questioned:
Well i was in relationship and my girlfriend told me that she has cheated on me. The self she cheated on me with is someone i despise very much!!!! how should i soubriquet him, And how should I get over her!
Tags: Cheating Girlfriend, Relationship
Don’t show her you still like her. And go out and make sure you take pictures of random girls with you and if you have a myspace or facebook post up pictures of you and the girls ha or just go around holding hands with whatever girl will follow your evil plot ha just an thought but if you dont’ want to mess with her just go out and have fun be young and have many experiences sorry for what she did to you their will be other girls value it!
Hey There,
Best Thought is forget her, and forget him. Both of them. Not value it.
So now – dont contact her, go on, get busy and fill up all your time so you dont reckon about it too much.
Go out with Mates, and do what you did before the relationship. Maybe even find a new interest?
Excellent Luck!
x o x o
ML
I had a bf cheat on me and it’s not fun. The only thing I can really say is….it takes awhile :/ I had such a hard time trusting him again and my friends weren’t making it simpler for me….they were trying to help and kept telling me ‘once a cheater always a cheater’ and even as I judge that is right for some people I don’t judge that for others….and I honestly don’t judge he would ever do it again. Bottom line though…I had a really hard time trusting him after all that and it make things hard for us. You know the typical arguing…me not trusting him blah blah blah…anyway…we broke up and that was really the only way I was able to get over everything….time apart makes you step back and in fact look at the whole picture and reason with it instead of being pressured to figure it out straight away.
As for this guy you despise…let it go…be mad at him of course ha but what will beating the crap out of him solve? nothing really…plus you clearly will be having other issues to deal with….
You can’t get over that then you go on. No contact forever…
Or rebuild your relationship and start anew
first question yourself if you still like her and would still trust her again… if yes.. then talk with her and sort things out … if not.. then go on and forget them… date somebody.. make friends…
Well do you still like her and want her back? On one hand she did fess up and tell you the truth. As far as him let it go i. The best thing you can do is act like it doesn’t bother you. Then again go on and forget the both of them.
just be glad u aren’t married to her and have children, because its hard to get away from someone once your married. be glad u found her out now. and this is something that will happen in your life many times, although it hurts, its also something that makes u grow emotionally. there are no guarantees in any relationship.
time heals everything.
Yes its hard, it hurts and u prob hope that she gets whats comin 2her, after all, what goes, around, comes around;)
focus on urself, cut all contact w her and the guy, well i wld kick his A.s.s. but thats me.
forget the ancient, and get a new one