silently yelling questioned:
If our spouse doesnt want to give it up then why wont they let us get it from somewhere else? Then they dont have to do anything and we are satisfied and everyones pleased!!!
Coming from a wifes point of view
no i dont cheat, i dont nag (ive learned my lesson) and i havent let myself “go”. im a excellent looking 120 lb, 5’4′, 21 year ancient. I just want some action.
Guys what can a girl do to get her hubby interested in sex again?
Tags: Marriage, Norm, Point Of View
Because cheating is incorrect and if you want sex that terribly then get a vibe.
Maybe the spouse doesnt want to give it because:
A. She does all the house work: Laundry,cook,clean, etc
B. She has a full time job
C. She has children to bath, feed, sleep, etc
D. Husband only thinks of pleasing himself and not her
E. Husband rarely shows any like, care, etc to the spouse
Do you really want me to continue? So maybe if you guys helped out a modest, women will want more sex. Maybe I might be incorrect, their are many pleased couples out there…
But before going into a conclusion, reckon about why the spouse might not want to have sex = )
Marriage is held to be between 2 people, not 3, 4, 5 or whatever.
yeah. I wouldn’t call it cheating though, I would call it pausing.
Yeah thats it pausing
Some would say that for swingers, cheating is the norm. Both partners get to have sex with other members of the opposite sex and it is all condoned by each other. Maybe you could try that.
Would’nt life be better if we did’nt have to deal with a Dumba.. like you
Because you took vows. Just because you condone the affair doesn’t mean the self isn’t cheating.
are you crazy, marriage is suppost to be sacred between a man and wife
is that a question coming from a married woman… May be you are the problem…
Because people don’t cheat because they are not getting sex from home. There are many couples who have fantastic sex frequently and there is still infidelity. Cheating is the result of personality defects, loose brain wiring. It involves selfishness, immaturity, impulsivity and lack of responsibility, none of which has to do with sex.
No cheating wouldn’t make marriage better. An open marriage or polygamy would be better. Anything that causes distrust in the relationship is terrible. But if you talked to your husband and the two of you came up with a solution, then things would be better. But it would have to be a right solution, not something one self wants that the other just goes along with because they are mandatory into it.
And Sondra D. has asome major issues. There are plenty of people who cheat because there is something they don’t get at home. It’s usually because there is something they don’t get at home. For men it’s regularly sexual. For women, it’s emotional.
if you wanted that life you shouldnt have gotten married ho.
It sounds like there is probably more involved here then your spouse “not wanting to give it up”. He wants a full physical to make sure there are not any physical problems, if that if normal, then he wants to be checked for depression. Maybe you are a modest at fault? Have you let yourself go? Do you nag at him? (from the tone of your send by e-mail, I’ll bet that goes on)are you someone that he wants to “give it up” to? Look at things honestly from your view point, AND from his and see what you come up with.
My husband is an athlete. He runs marathons and is up at 4:30 responsibility his training so he does not miss any family time. By the time we get to bed, he is worn out. I know that and don’t pressure him. Then, when he does have the energy, it is WELL value the wait.
you have problems!
You shouldn’t have got married at 21!