blinkbitchhhh questioned:
me and my boyfriend are fantastic together, im exteremly in like with him and i know the feeling is mutual. but recently ive been acting nearly crazy. we dont trust eachother yet and ive been so paranoid about him cheating on me. i reckon i might be slowly pushing him away. what can i do to stop acting like a psycho?
Tags: Acting, Cheating Boyfriend, Psycho
you need to learn how to trust him, if he truely likes you TRUST me he wouldnt cheat
the more you reckon about it…the more likey it’s bound to happen.
Just take a deep breath and chill out!!! Stop worrying about something that hasn’t even happened yet, and probably won’t ever happen. Whenever you feel yourself getting a modest crazy, just pause, reckon, and start over. And if you are still feeling paranoid, talk to your boyfriend about your insecurities and let him confirm you that he likes you. : )
I’ve been having the same feeling. So much so that I got a book called “The Truth About Cheating”. The book has been pretty helpful. Just tell yourself that if it’s meant to be, it’s meant to be. The main problem is you’re frightened of being hurt and are trying to protect yourself by assuming it’s going to happen. If it does happen, then you’ll know that you weren’t meant for each other. But right now he’s the best thing that’s ever happened, and that’s all that matters.
try telling him say listen i am madly in like with u and i heard/saw you cheating on me i really don’t like that try that hope i helped sara peace
If you can’t trust him the relationship isn’t going to work well.
If you don’t learn, try to go on.
Or maybe sneak his buzz when he isn’t looking?
Help me with mine?
Stop worrying because he alredy has. So, now you know.
You can go on without worrying anymore. See simple isn’t it?
Trust is something that is not a given but something that is “built up” over time. You don’t say how long you have both been together. If this is a new relationship, you may just need to show each other over time that you can be trusted. For example, not looking at other attractive people that walk by when you are together or …instead of being questioned where you are going without the other self, you volunteer the information so that you let the other self feel secure in knowing you can be trusted and that’s why you are telling them.
So regularly in relationships, people just ASSUME that if they say I like you, it earnings I like you and it’s a done deal. Trust comes in the things your bf or gf does that shows you that trust.
Once you are shown without having to question for it the paranoia goes away. Excellent luck to you both.
yikes! being in a relationship where there is no trust is never a excellent thought. sounds like you need space, go out! have fun with your girlfriends
Don’t worry so much cause yea, it will eventually make you psycho and same with him, recommend that he go out with his buddies for a night! you guys both deserve it. Sit each other down and question each other “do you trust me? if no, will you ever trust me?” and if its no, then go on cause you’ll be home wondering 24/7 whether or not he has another girl in his arms. If ya cant trust him fully, then its not honest to him or to you. Excellent luck hun! 
things will work out for the best
i know how you feel i thought the same way. and my boyfriend in fact was cheating on me alot.
but the reason i knew was that there was waterproof signs
he saying eerie things on myspace and texted some girls a lot.
so unless there is in fact evidence you shouldnt freak out….trust me after that i feel like i can never trust him and seem to be nearly always worrying…so yea hold on to what you have and dont reckon things that may not be right. if you spend your days worrying you’ll miss out on all the excellent times and you may lose him