Darren questioned:
I found out my girlfriend cheated on me. And I finished up dumping her. Like a few weeks shortly now she is trying to get me back. She texts me all the time, cries on my voice mail, and today sent me a card with a long letter about how sorry she is and how it was a huge mistake and all that.
Tags: Big Mistake, Cheating Girlfriend, Texts
Why are you asking us, only you know the answer to this one dude. If you still want her then take her back.
Only if you want to have a threesome with her and the man she cheated with.
or if you really really really sure she is sorry and she won’t do it again and take a risk, but it’s ok, it is not marriage yet.
If it was me – NO – besides you do not sound that heart broken. Offended maybe. Let her go – time for her to grow up and accept consequences of her actions. Unless you are as naughty ????
if you take her back i promise she WILL do it again at some point, DO NOT take her back
You have to take her past into consideration. Does she have a description of cheating before this one time? Does she keep her promises? Can you go back into a relationship with her and be able to trust her?
Here is a rule that I live by:
If they cheat one time, then they’ll cheat again.
For this reason, I would not take your girlfriend back.
It looks like your girlfriend is very needy, so I suggest going out there and finding some else.
Excellent luck!
No!!! She is just going to break your heart all over again! She feels guilty and she should! You should choose someone more loyal like me!^_^ Lol, I used a loy of exclamation points. I’m soooooo bored, can someone talk?
No, let her learn from her mistake.
Do you still like her?
I judge that, everyone deserves a second chance. She knows she did something incorrect, and hopefully she learned from that. So I reckon you should maybe take it into consideration. But, does she have a description of cheating? If so, then you need to reckon about that too. Maybe give her another chance, but if it happens again, then tell her it’s over. But, it is COMPLETELY your choice, we are just giving you thoughts, tips, hints.
I wish you the best of luck!!!!
I would say no. She may regret responsibility it, and may truely be sorry. But she still cheated on you behind your back. If she had the nerve to do it once, she may easily do it again a year from now or two years from now when this guilt wears off